My experience with Bangkok only spans about 10 years.
But, I've seen a radical change in attitude, not so much by the Thais, but by the visitors.
People used to read guidebooks to reseach their destinations.
Reading about places still doesn't remove the "mystery".
All the books on Thailand addressed modesty, politeness, and demeanor.
There would be a laundry list of cultural considerations.
Then came the forums.
Everyone has become an expert and lends their "reality" to the topic.
Any mystery is lost.
Thai's are culturally sensitive? 'Don't make me laugh!'
Dress modestly? 'I see Thai girls dressed provocatively all the time!'
Don't argue or show hostility? 'Don't let the little bastards screw you!'
'All the cops are crooked!'
'Everyone's out to scam you!'
'The land of (phoney) smiles!'
'It's my vacation; I'll do want I want!'
I'm not trying to take a moral high ground.
Anyone can travel in any manner they choose.
But, how one presents himself might just make the difference, whether he is treated as a guest or a mark.
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