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New experiences, new places...it is what life is all about


Real Name: Nicole
Lives In: New York State, US
Birth Date: December 7, 1972
Member Since: Oct 14, 2003
Last Login: Dec 16, 2008   23:07 UTC
Member's Time: Nov 10, 2009   08:51 EST
VT Rank: 1095
Deals Rank: Unranked
External Page:www.ahrc.org
Travel Interests: Budget Travel, Camping, Beaches, Hiking and Walking, Road Trip

 

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To the future

by dharmabum222 - last update: Dec 16, 2008

the inn in Newport where the question was popped


~Boca Grande, Florida
~Became a first time aunt to twins
~Glacier National Park-multiple points in Montana/Canada- saw a bear in the wild
~Cape Cod, Maine- saw humpback whales breaching
~Guatemala: Antigua/Panajachel-Peered in to an active volcano
~Bought a HOUSE & now am broke!!!!!! (December 2007)
Boca Grande Florida (Early 2008)
~ Newport Rhode Island and the Cape- a surprise engagement weekend (August 2008)
a honeymoon somewhere April 2009- taking suggestions b

Mountain Fix

While posting the photograph above from my recent trip to Glacier National Park, something suddenly occurred to me. I have been organizing so many of my recent trips around being near mountains without realizing that I was doing it. The most recent affliction seems to have started with California's Yosemite National Park just shy of 2 years ago, went on to the Argentine side of the Andes Mountains last summer, climbing cliffs in Maine's Acadia National Park and then most recently "The Rockies" in Montana & Canada's Glacier, Kootenay, Waterton and Banff National Parks.

Living on an island had perhaps taken it's toll on me, not sure. Just as swiftly and under the radar as this fixation arrived, it left. With no ceremony or reasoning, I find myself drawn now to more arid landscapes. I am craving cultural experiences more than the seclusion of a mountainside.

Montana has left me sated for now while somewhere in the depths of my soul is a whispering voice repeating Himalaya, Himalaya, Himalaya.

That whisper is simply hard to hear over the drums as they beat Africa, Africa, Africa.

Travel partners

Oftentimes on my pages and in travelogues I refer to a collective, often ambiguous "we" and the "we" is different depending on the location but it is always one of 2 people.

Erik is my partner in more than travels and has shown me that you do not need to suffer to feel like you are seeing the world. He recognizes that planning a trip is, for me, part of the trip itself... from the obsessive observation of air fare prices months earlier, waking to me practicing my best "good morning" in Swahili before his alarm has even gone off...or pulling another copy of lonely planet off of my face as I snore. He knows the sheer joy that the planning brings me and he lets me go about it, ever the eager participant.

I think that sometimes part of the adventure for him is the not knowing...I am certain that while he would not admit it, there are times when he packs a bag, full of excitement and has no idea what airport we are landing in.

That is trust...

"We" are the perfect partners in our balance. Now we are getting married so that the travels never end!
Erik, Palermo~Buenos Aires, Argentina
Westman Islands-Iceland Linnea13
Linnea and I usually sleep in tents and carry backpacks. "We" have slept in places infested with scorpions & been eaten nearly to death by other assortments of insects. There have been times when we sweat ourselves to sleep under a dome of stars in the tropics or shivered into restless slumber in the shadow of a glacier.

Together "we" have witnessed the clumsy grace of breaching humpbacks in the rain, danced on an world bathed in 24 hour daylight and raged to the beat of the earth's pulse as the sun rose over Rio.

All the while living for the adventure and the overcoming of it all and laughing until we cry.

She makes me remember that I have an adventurous side that gets lost sometimes.

Fire

There are for me things that keep me coming back. Back to the material world and my Monday, Friday 9am,5pm life. I have had escapist drives for years now and sometimes the fire inside of me rages and rumbles until I cannot hear.

Returning from one adventure, world weary and dusty from use, a hot shower and a long sleep & the restless urges come back, sometimes worse than before I left. They fade with the weeks and I come back to a place where I realize the beauty in my life and finding the magic becomes less difficult. The fire inside burns high and steady in mesmerizing flames. I withdraw to spend time near the orange, eyes fixed, like a moth.

I know that I do not want a solitary life, a life on the road... Even if with my partner. I am certain that, for me, I would become more lost than found.

It is a struggle.

As I go through years, I have learned that the fire gives me strength. It is my strength. I am a hard worker and have achieved professional successes, one after another. Those successes lead me closer to my dreams but are not my dreams.

I am bound to family. I look in to the smiling eyes of my infant nephews and have been startled by the tone and sound of my own laughter as it passes my lips. I hear familiar but foreign melodies that I have only known on the road. I can glimpse the world in those little blue eyes and it elicits that same road euphoria for a moment & the fire burns hot, low and steady.

I have learned that the same fire that can deafen me can fuel me.

When the going is tough, it keeps me warm and reminds me that when the day to day becomes too much.... all that I need is a little more air and the world is right around the corner.
Fire trails, Pacific Northwest USA circa 2004

Blue Eyes

Trevor & Myles

Happy Holidays & Best wishes to everyone in 2009!

Trevor
Myles

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Comments for dharmabum222
chrispymon Wed Jun 17, 2009 14:41 UTC
 Nicole great pictures of Westman Iceland. My father passed there while on vacation on 4/28/99. My mother was told by the mayor that my father was the first tourist to pass away there in their history. By happenstance I saw that we share b-days
cjg1 Wed Dec 17, 2008 12:06 UTC
 Congratulations Nicole on your future wedding plans. We are mulling over honeymoon ideas at the moment...I'm thinking of just spinning a globe and seeing where it stops to decide...lol
Herkbert Sun Dec 7, 2008 20:24 UTC
 Happy birthday, Nicole! Hope your day is a special one. Enjoyed looking at your homepage too!
omran Sun Dec 7, 2008 18:00 UTC
 Happy birthday to you take care :O)
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